What to Expect at Your First Meeting with a Divorce Attorney
Understanding the Personal Nature of Questions
During your first meeting with a divorce attorney, you'll be asked numerous questions that may be personal in nature. It's important to understand that these questions aren't asked out of curiosity, but rather to:
- Gather all necessary information to answer your questions accurately
- Provide advice specific to your particular situation
- Prepare a strong case on your behalf
Key Topics of Discussion
Financial Information
Your attorney will need to discuss:
- Current earnings for both you and your spouse
- Retirement accounts
- Bank accounts
- Real estate holdings
- Outstanding debts
Children and Parenting (If Applicable)
You'll discuss:
- Current parenting roles
- Each parent's involvement with the children
- Existing custody arrangements
Making Your Decision
Remember that divorce is a significant decision:
- You should never feel pressured to make an immediate commitment
- It's recommended to take time to think things over before signing any documents
- Many attorneys encourage clients to "sleep on it" before making a final decision
Choosing the Right Attorney
When selecting a divorce attorney, consider:
- Personal comfort level with the attorney
- Personality compatibility
- Communication style
- Your ability to share personal information freely
Remember that you and your attorney will work as a team throughout your case. It's crucial to choose someone you feel comfortable with, as you'll need to share considerable personal information during the process.
Need Legal Assistance?
If you're considering filing for divorce and would like more information, don't wait - contact Kirshenbaum & Kirshenbaum. We're happy to assist you with your matter and help you understand your options.
